Comments on: Vagina: The Masturbation Movement

By: B

Tue, 01 Jun 2010 17:40:16 +0000

I agree with Gef.

By: Gef

Gef — Sun, 30 May 2010 02:58:05 +0000

Thanks for the education but sorry, there are a lot of women who know how to get off on their own daily. Somehow you have taken for granted that the girls you have known have decided to lie to you and tell you they don’t touch their vaginas. They do, you just don’t know it. If there were a more relaxed level of intimacy and comfort they would let you know. I do not agree that women do not masturbate. Who buys all the dildos and vibrators? not men.

By: guy

guy — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 05:29:24 +0000

wow, I never thought id see a women posting a comment like this, but in my honest oppoion its about fucking time! I have been saying the same thing to my freinds as well and their usual response would be you’re gross, nasty or perverted and they aren’t like that they are innocent and clean. I actually got my best freind to do she has done it 5 times(of which I am aware of). She told me that she stupidly rushed into it this one time she got horny and ended up hurting herself and was scared/worried about trying it again. I explained to her as best I could with her running away screaming or smacking me, and she tried it again weeks later. She told me she liked it alot and was never gonna do it again. She then told me several weeks later that she kept masterbating until she had done it 5 times(in total) and she said she liked it alot and was getting to love it. But she said she was never gonne do it….again. And ever since then she has seemed alot more relaxed and calm(I know this because she hasn’t gotten pissed at me). And it seems to me that she still keeps masterbating from time to time yet still feeling thats she should’nt do it and its bad to masterbate(for some dam retarded reason!)

By: Jourdan

Jourdan — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 07:02:01 +0000

The wisdom of Joe Jackson (‘You Can’t get what You Want, Till You Know What You Want’) and the Bangles (‘If She Knew what She Wants, He’d have given it to her’) come to mind.

By: Louann Witschi

Louann Witschi — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 07:31:06 +0000

Good posting, thanks a lot!

By: Get-a-Real-Life

Get-a-Real-Life — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 09:38:09 +0000

Masterbation: Path to all things wonderful or infantile self-stimulation? It must be wonderful to feel like masterbation is just the bees’ knees, and feel compelled to spread the gospel. So fashionable, so now. Truth is, the answer probably depends on the individual. For example, if you feel like it is something you do that you wish you didn’t, then suggesting that everybody do it might be one strategy to feel better about yourself.

Personally, I can do without seeing dopy ads for it on TV, in the movies, and web sites. I say, let it stay private and lets put public attention and debate on how the f*** we are going to shift the consciousness, meet the needs, and elevate humanity’s future. Not nearly as narcissistic and self-absorbed as focusing on the infinite wonders of self-stimulation, but worthwhile none-the-less.

By: JOKER !!!!

JOKER !!!! — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 19:03:45 +0000

I agree with you that women shouldn’t need a man to reach orgasm, I sure don’t need a woman for it!!!..also some of the woman I have been with seem to think all they have to do is be there, this is a myth as well. If you have it learn how to use it also applies to the ladies. It isn’t easy for a man to know what you want when you don’t say anything, we cannot read your mind. Then when you aren’t satisfied you hang out with your friends and in a insecure banter you have a laugh at the guy who doesn’t know enough about the womens body. Well neither do you know enough about the womans body or the mens for that matter. I have been with plenty of women in my life who thought they were a ball of fire in bed and really didn’t know what the hell they were doing. But when they ask us we say it is great, the same as you do at times because one thing we are also taught as young men is not to hurt a girls feelings. So yes enjoy your body and learn what you like it is not our fault if you don’t and I think I can speak for alot of men out there when I say we are getting tired of being blamed for everything that goes wrong with you in bed. Now….go home and masterbate will ya !!! LOL

By: Let'sHearItForTheGirls!

Let'sHearItForTheGirls! — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 06:40:56 +0000

What an awesome article!! A friend of mine, bless his heart, kept getting me so worked up over the phone, I finally HAD to resort! What I’ve been missing!! Damn! No wonder he doesn’t mind talking about all of this. I always wondered how in the world guys talk about masturbation so freely, it’s because it becomes so much a part of who they are, at a young age, so by the time they’re “grown-ups,” (that’s a laugh eh girls!) they just don’t have any inhibitions about it. He was right, by the way, and I realized how damn stupid it is for we girls to not throw our own inhibitions aside and go with it. I agree completely that it would help sex all the way around for US to understand better what really works. It would put a stop to the cycle of us wanting them to do it RIGHT and make me orgasm (dammit!) They could use a little help girls!! Thanks for having the Kahoonas to write this article, I think I’ll post a link straight to it from my facebook page! seriously!!! One happy girl up north!

By: girl squirt how to

girl squirt how to — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 22:52:34 +0000

I was thinking of writing a similar article, but you got to it first! Thanks for the post though!

By: pobo

pobo — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 05:54:28 +0000

you just inspired me to watch some porn

By: PinkPolish

PinkPolish — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 15:19:44 +0000

Ms. Coquine, I totally agree. I have often found it puzzling why men can have entire conversations about ‘beating it’ or what have you, while it is one thing women will never talk about. Majority of women will discuss the most graphic of bedroom intimacies but never masturbation. I am a firm believe that masturbation is exactly as you have explained, a pleasurable way to learn about your body and what excites you and will invariably lead to better sex. However, I also think that maybe women aren’t as forthcoming about how often they actually do masturbate. I find it hard to believe that a sexually active woman with a healthy appetite can go for months without sex and without masturbating.

I think that you have pin-pointed one of the major obstacles in getting women to be more comfortable with their bodies and their sexual experiences, that being their inability to embrace the terminology. For example, many use the term vagina in a clinical way that distances themselves emotionally and sexually when talking about that particular area, yet these same women are offended when nick-names are used like pussy, cunt, slit. I myself prefer to step away from the 17th century imposed terminology for female sexual organs that equate them with “sword scabbards” (see etymonline.com) and freely throw around any word I so fucking choose at the moment.

So, like you said, let us toss off the shame in ‘rubbing-one-out’, and enthusiastically embrace the beauty of getting yourself off and all the wonderful toys they have created to help you do so.

By: o'Nizzle

o'Nizzle — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 02:53:09 +0000

VAH – GI- NUHHHHH.
You’ve inspired me. I’m going to go borrow my roommate’s electric toothbrush right now!!!